婚姻维新记：幸福婚姻的100个简约法则 英汉对照

1.TheMundaneIsHeroic 2伟大的平凡2.SeePossibilitiesWhereOthersSeeObstacles 4在障碍中发现机会3.SetRulesforConflict 6冲突也要有规则4.AnyoneCanFindaHappyRelationship 8每个人都能找到自己的另一半5.It誷NotHowHardYouTry 10与如何努力无关6.YouHaveNothingtoEnvy 12一点也不嫉妒你7.AttitudeTriumphsoverOutcome 14态度胜于结果8.Don誸BeBoundbyTradition 16别让传统束缚住9.ThePastIsNottheFuture 18过去不是未来10.NoOneWinstheComparisonGame 20幸福不是比出来的11.SeetheLoveAroundYou 22看到自己身边的爱12.DoingNothingIsRarelyaSolution 24逃避不是办法13.You誰lForgettheDisagreementbutRemembertheDisagreeing 26分歧可以忘掉,但争吵却会被牢记14.PursueWhatYouNeedForever,NotWhatYouWantToday 28追求自己真正需要的东西15.SeekHarmonyinYourLife 30寻找和谐16.TheRelationshipTest:AreYouLonely 32你孤独吗17.It誷theLittleThingsThatMattertheMost 34平常日子最重要18.ARelationshipRequiresTwoEquals 36婚姻中双方要平等19.BewareofFairyTales 38别扮演童话故事中的主角20.CultivateaCommonInterest 40培养共同爱好21.TreattheDisease,NottheSymptom 42治病要治本22.There誷NoPointinPuttingOnaShow 44婚姻不是表演23.YouMakeYourOwnHistory 46走自己的路24.MaintainYourSenseofControl 48一切由你掌握25.MoneyCan誸BuyLove,butItCanBuyStress 50钱买不到爱情,却能买来烦恼26.ThereAreNoMindReaders 52让伴侣知道你的需要27.There誷NoNeedtoHurry 54不必着急28.FirendsSpeakfromExperience—TheirOwn 56不要听信别人的经验之谈29.DrinkLess 58少喝点儿酒30.DecideWhetherYouWanttoWinorBeHappy 60夫妻争吵没有赢家31.ASenseofHumorHelps 62多些幽默32.ThinkBeyondtheEngagement 64订婚后的日子还长着呢33.SeetheFriendshipinYourRelationship 66在爱情中发现友谊34.TheMostTimeIsNottheBestTime 68给彼此留出一些空间35.ReduceTVTime 70少看点儿电视36.TheWorldWillIntrudeonYourRelationship 72不可忽视外界的影响37.GentlemenPrefertheSameThingsLadiesPrefer 74男女观念渐趋同38.LoveIsBlindbutLifeIsn誸Always 76生活是光明的39.BalanceDependsonWhichWayYouLean 78保持平衡40.ARelationshipbyAnyOtherNameIsJustasImportant 80名分并不重要41.TheFutureMattersMorethanthePast 82未来比过去更重要42.YouDon誸HavetoSeeEyetoEyeonEverything 84不必处处一致43.BeOpenwithEachOther 86坦诚相对44.AccentuatethePositiveinAllAspectsofYourLife 88播撒好心情45.ItHelpstoBeFriends 90友谊对婚姻贡献良多46.FoundationsAreCreatedintheBeginning 92开始就打下良好的根基47.AmbivalenceIsaNegative 94明确地表达你的爱48.ShareHousework 96共同承担家务49.ARelationshipStartswithYourself 98先要有爱心50.LetGooftheBurdenofPain 100放下包袱51.DevelopaHealthyCalm 102别太暴躁52.ThinkofYourOwnIdeal 104放弃幻想53.StayFlexible 106灵活一些54.ThinkAboutPotential 108保持希望55.EveninaRelationship,YouAreStillanIndividual 110保持独立56.RestUp—ThisIsGoingtoTakeSomeEffort 112让自己好好休息一下57.LiketheWayYouLook 114学会欣赏自己58.Don誸RomanticizethePast 116不要美化过去59.SharethePraiseandShareintheBlame 118荣辱与共60.YouCan誸FindWithoutLooking 120不找又怎么能找得到呢61.MeaningfulCommitmentIsMutualCommitment 122共同的努力才有意义62.FriendshipsPredictRelationships 124有朋友就不怕没爱人63.PrepareforMilestones 126重大事件64.Don誸BringYourJobHomewithYou 128别把工作带回家65.WeAssumeSimilarPreferences 130我们总是以己度人66.Don誸LetSecretsEatYouUp 132别让秘密把你压垮67.ToFindaBetterWay,LookWhereYou誺eBeen 134认清现实,寻找一条更好的路68.MoneyMattersLessoverTime 136金钱其实并不重要69.RecognizetheValueofSharedValues 138拥有共同的价值观很重要70.UnderstandWhatYou誶eLookingfor 140明白自己的需要71.EveryoneHastheMeritofHisOwn 142每个人都有自己的优点72.You誰lNeedSomeRelationshipFriends 144交些已婚的朋友73.Don誸WaittoStartMovingintheRightDirection 146对了就别迟疑74.MusicCanBringUsTogether 148音乐让我们在一起75.DefineWhatYouNeed 150确定你想要什么76.ShowYouCare,EvenWhenIt誷Hardto 152表现你的关心77.MakeYourDecisionsforPositiveReasons 154积极面对问题78.ARelationshipIsBuiltonaFoundationofSupport 156互相支持是婚姻的基础79.ThePiecesofYourLifeMustFitTogether 158让你的生活保持完整80.MasterYourFears 160控制你的恐惧81.WeAreAllMuchMoreAlikethanDifferent 162相似多于不同82.LimitYourInterestinthePast 164别过分关注伴侣的过去83.GetYourRealityfromReality 166脚踏实地84.YouAreNeverTooOldtoFindLove 168真爱不嫌老85.WeLookInwardtoSeeHowPeopleFeelaboutUs 170你怎样看自己,别人就怎样看你86.BeWillingtoEvolve 172勇于改变87.Connect,SeeYou誶eCapable,andKnowYouCount 174自知且自信88.ReliabilityCountsaLot 176给对方以安全感89.YouAreCompletebyYourself 178因你自己而完整90.IntensityFades 180激情总会消逝91.BewareSecondOpinions 182警惕第三者的看法92.HaveFaithbutDon誸ForgetReality 184有信心的同时再现实些93.PayAttention 186留心伴侣的心情94.NicePeopleDon誸FinishLast 188好人不会剩到最后95.RelationshipsArelikeModernArt 190婚姻就像现代艺术96.It誷NotEasy,EvenifItLooksIs 192婚姻不易97.MostPeopleAreLookingforExperiencedRookies 194有经验的新手更受青睐98.It誷forYou—orItIsn誸 196自己的事自己决定99.SeetheHorizon,WatchYourStep 198着眼将来,始于足下100.TheSearchforPerfectionIsEndless 200完美无止境